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This post has evolved and reformed several times in my mind before I had a chance to write it out.  The original idea was inspired by Larisa's post over at The Pink Pigtailed Inn in which she responded to a commenter who decided WoW was consuming his life and was a waste of time.  From there I went on to read Klepsacovic's post over at Troll Racials Are Overpowered, which was a response to Larisa's post.

Then, my focus shifted again after reading the heartfelt post by Fulguralis on Killing 'em Slowly, which he then submitted “WoW and Hope” as a Blog Azeroth shared topic.

So now I present to you, my thoughts and ramblings that have been inspired and shaped by those posts.

The Big “Why” Question

Why do I play WoW? Why do I spend so much of my time invested in this game, on these characters, all of which are not “real.”  They aren't tangible creations.  They will be gone when Blizzard decides to shut down the servers… lost forever.  Syrana isn't me.  Syrana is just pixels on the screen.

this-is-syranaBut I can identify with her on some level.  She is my therapy, my outlet.  As is the blogging.  Some might think I waste even more time by reading so much about “just a game” and then writing about it too.  Pfft, this helps me enjoy the game even more and become immersed within this virtual world.

Is everything I do in-game an extension of myself? Of course not.  But it's a virtual world where I can escape to and feel comfortable among like-minded companions.

A Hobby is a Hobby is a Hobby…

Why does gaming, as a hobby, have such a stigma anyhow? It's quite strange, really.  And why does my every waking moment have to be “productive.”  How many non-gamers do you know that are doing something productive every moment they are awake?  Yeah, I thought so… some but not all (and certainly not all that shun my game playing!).  Playing WoW is more productive, social, and interactive than sitting and watching TV and movies for hours on end.  But who questions that?

Do people do things like play hooky from work or school to play? Yes, just like people will to go fishing, play golf, or go hunting.

2 Simple Rules

My leisure time is mine.  No one else can determine how I could or should be spending that time.  I can do as I please as long as I follow these 2 simple rules:

1.  I'm enjoying myself.   (And it's semi-legal… just kidding, as long as it's legal!)

2.  I'm not hurting anyone.  (PvP excluded)

I'm an adult, I can make big girl decisions thankyouverymuch!  And I believe this goes for any hobby or pasttime that one may have.

Playing my characters, chattin' it up with guildies, hosting social guild events, and running around Dalaran in circles are how I like to spend my leisure time.  So yes, some might say I'm wasting my time WHILE wasting my time!  I don't even really hide it ever.  My computer at home has a WoW screenshot for the desktop, and so does my work computer.  A few of my co-workers even come to this here blog to read my role-playing story.  I use my WoW themed credit card with no shame.  (Plus, there's no shame in earning free game time!)

All of this is important because everyone needs to have their “me” time and a way to revitalize.  Of course, since my husband plays too, WoW also provides “us” time as well.  And now that my mother and father play, it even provides some “family” time.

A Moment of Clarity

Escaping reality is a necessity for me to keep my sanity.  It's a way for me to effectively perform my job.  Especially in our current state of economic troubles, I need to perform my job well.  In this time where many lack hope, I must constantly work to provide and instill hope in my clients.

waterfallI work with people every day.  This can be emotionally draining and exhausting, hence the mental vacation WoW often provides at little cost.  And providing hope, is my main commodity.  I work with people that are seeking alcohol and drug treatment.  I am not a counselor, but a case manager.  A majority of the people I have contact with on a daily basis have hit rock bottom or are very near to it.  They've gone through a downward spiral, have incredible stories, and have often lost all that is near and dear to them… their lives are fragmented.  I am there to help them find those pieces so they can pick them up and put them back together.  If I'm not revitalized, refreshed, and renewed, how can I expect to instill hope in people day in and day out?  I can't.

World of Warcraft helps me to do just that.  It gives me a chance to escape what's bad and depressing to go into Azeroth where I can be a hero and change the world.

So when I wake up, I can really help change the world… by providing hope to someone I'm working with so they are able to change their own world.


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  • I vote Fantastic Voyage! It’s been a wild ride and so much fun with friends (& guildies), family, and foes…you can have it all here!

  • @Fulg

    *curtsy* Thank you, thank you.


    I thought it was fitting… free them from what plagues them, in-game and out. Plus, it was super cute. 😉


    I vote Fantastic Voyage too! 😀

  • i might make a post on this as well. As far as I see it is human nature to magically go somewhere else, forget things and become someone else. That’s why story telling, alcohol and other mind altering drugs have been around since humans have been around. we now have novels of thousands of pages, designer drugs, millions of kinds of alcohol and sophisticated role play games. as I despise alcohol and drugs I’m not left with many options

  • Excellent post. One day I’ll get around to making this shared topic post as well.. I’m just waiting for a day where I don’t have something to complain about =X.


We are a family of gamers. Mom (Darcy/Syrana) and Dad (Brian/Sideshow) have been gaming for as long as they can remember back when you only had a joystick to use and saved your games to cassette tapes.

They've been gaming together since they met in 2002. Sometime after 2006, they both started playing World of Warcraft and did that for many years. They started this blog, originally called Sideshow & Syrana which has now transitioned to the new Stay-At-Home Gamers site, while keeping all of the original content.

Starting in 2010, two more gamers came along (now known as Princess Boo and Mr. X) and they are now old enough where they both enjoy playing games and watching others play games. They are both excited to have others to watch them play their favorite games. Come along with us and let's enjoy these games together!